Sorry for all the lack of updates! I don't have a lot of individual date details to share. I have had 23 dates so far and all have been with one guy since my last update. Adam from Canada (his name isn't Adam BTW) and I have gone on several dates. I decided about a month ago not to see anyone else besides him. I wouldn't call him my "boyfriend" or anything but I am not dating anyone else right now. He is incredly kind, thoughtful and nice. Everytime I see him, I leave telling myself I can't believe how nice he is. He is very interesting, cute and smart. While I am not giving you a lot of updates, I figure this is a big update to share! Hope you are enjoying your 3 day weekend!
I have gone on 3 dates over the past 3 weeks!
Date 2 was with Bummer Bill. I knew within 10 minutes that the date was going to suck. He was very boring and not interesting at all. I was barely able to spend 45 minutes with him. I had to get out of there before he sucked all the joy out of my soul! So I quickly ended it and got out of there. It was the first date that I have ever gone on that it was obvious that I had zero interest in ever seeing them again.
I had 2 more dates scheduled but had to reschedule because I came down with the flu. Luckily both guys understood and were cool with rescheduling.
Date 3 was with Michael. He was the first date I went on this year. He is one of the nicest guys I have ever met but there isn't any chemistry. At first I was interested in going on another date with him but I realized I could go on 40 dates with him and would feel the same way. Super nice guy but he doesn't have much passion for anything. He doesn't seem like a doer either. And for anyone who doesn't know me, I rarely watch tv and enjoy doing things! I want a guy that has some passion and enjoys trying new things and Michael is not like that.
Date 4 was with John. John is also very nice! He is a single dad to a 14 year old boy. He is pretty nerdy and enjoys playing video games and some card game that I don't understand. He is pretty introverted and I am definitely not that! Not second date potential.
So, I consider myself lucky so far to have met 2 very nice guys even though there isn't any long term potential with either. I have also noticed a common theme where the guys don't ask about me. I don't want the entire date to be all about me but these guys don't even ask where I am from, what I like to do, etc. I don't think they are narcissists but more that they are pretty introverted and struggle socially maybe? Who knows but I want someone who is interested in me! I think I am pretty interesting!
I am hoping to get another date schedueld this next week before I go out of town for a work conference. Do you know anyone I should meet??
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